Holding On

I have a song running through my mind today...."hold on to every moment....that you can." This week our friends tragically lost their son and we attended the funeral this morning. It's been a week to hug the kids more often and practice being more patient and wonder how to love those who have lost so much. Life is full of good and bad, and I'm just grateful for a family to share it all with. We are blessed with millions of moments and I love photos that help me remember those moments, that when added together create our lives.

We shared our annual candlelight dinner for Valentines Day. The candlelight adds a little extra peacefulness to a usually loud time of a day. We should try it more often, but then it might loose it's effect.
It's always a little different when a holiday falls on Sunday. We had expected to be in St. George this weekend, but were able to attend church at home. It was fun to dress for the occasion in valentine colors.

The kids were excited about their valentine parties at school. Sadie was a good sport preparing enough valentines for 2 classes. What a girl, to write her name about 50 times! Hayden got to dance with girls, which he secretly enjoyed, but we won't tell.

After already having a friend party and a family party, Sara finally got to open the BIG present on her actual birthday that had been sitting in mom and dad's room for weeks. The box was large enough for Carson to fit inside and she couldn't imagine what it was. To her delight, she will be improving her ripstik skills...and doing it in style with a PINK ripstik!

The family party for both birthday girls was a chocolate fountain night. If you can dip it in chocolate we were eating it! Sara had chocolate from head to toe after about three minutes. Sadie preferred just eating treats chocolate free, which left more chocolate for Sara, and they were both happy.

Carson conquered the diaper free world and earned his Frenzy lego set. This kid spends hours everyday setting up and playing with legos, so his first real set was a big thing. He was so excited that he promptly had an accident a half hour later. Since then, he is has done great and we have left the diaper stage of our lives happily behind as we enter the cookie monster underwear stage. Good bye diapers...we are sorry but we won't be missing you.

We also took the kids to Chuck E. Cheese this weekend (another bribe for potty training). Carson was quite picky about how he spent his tokens, and even had to save his last one. It was a little overwhelming for him and Sadie, but I think Chucky lived up to all the expectations we had for him.

And there you have it.... a few moments worth hanging onto from our lives this week.

Sisters Are For Sharing

Sisters are for sharing.....birthday fun

Sisters are for sharing.....fancy hair-do's
Sisters are for sharing....a hand to hold

Sisters are for sharing....laughter and giggles

Sisters are for sharing....a hug

Just Sadie

I'm wondering if I moved to China and lived with a Chinese family that only spoke a handful of words in English and I had no formal language training if I could do (in 5 months time) what Sadie did yesterday. She answered the phone. Sounds simple enough, but is it really? Could I understand someone speaking at their normal rate enough to answer their questions and take a message? I'm guessing it would be a maybe if I was lucky.

Sadie: Hello
Other: asks for Hayden
Sadie: What you name?
Other: answers her name
Sadie: Hayden no here (which he wasn't)
Other: says goodbye and hangs up
Sadie: (hangs up and gives me the message) That Brynn. She want talk Hayden. I say Hayden no here.

Maybe she could give the boys (ages 10-40) in the house a few lessons.

Sadie was very excited about her birthday. We've counted the days and held up fingers for how many days were left until the actual day. She wanted us to do the same things we'd done for Hayden on his day....wake the birthday person up by being sung to and spanking them later in the day once for each year. She'd requested the singing multiple times, but wasn't so big on the idea when seven in the morning came. She covered her ears. I'm sure it couldn't have been our singing. She got a Kai Lan shirt and pajamas with feet from her Grandma & Grandpa Reeder. She's been wanting "baby pajamas" like Sara has. When I was doing her hair that morning she said "China...no birthdays." Then a few minutes later she said "China, no jamas (pj's), wear shirt to bed." It was so sweet. She isn't sad about things she didn't have in China, but she understands we want to know about her past. I love when she tells me little insights like this. It helps me love this little girl that has accepted us as her family without a single hesitation. She will eat our food and join in our lifestyle and learn our language. I won't ever know hardly anything about her first 6 1/2 years and I realize even her memories of them are fading, so I want to record the few things she does tell us. They feel like saving a lock of hair, or writing down the first spoken word in a baby book.

She also got a blue bike from Mom and Dad that morning and was a little disappointed when she couldn't ride it to the bus stop in the morning. She got to take fruit roll-ups to share with her classes at school. We had to go for a bike ride as soon as she got home--cold but fun. The best was going out for chinese food for dinner. We ordered 4 entrees and ate family style. The kids were all saying which was their favorite. When we ask Sadie what her favorite was she promptly pointed to each thing on her plate. She said "yummy" no less than 5 times during the dinner.

Each milestone we celebrate with children feels important, but Sadie's 7th birthday will always be one that stands out. Happy Birthday Peanut!